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Th e preceding keynote address was given by Dr. Doreen Nakahara Olsen at the Annual Hawaii Island Honpa Hongwanji Lay Members Association Convention hosted by Paauilo Hongwanji on Sunday, July 26, 1998 in Paauilo.
Good morning, everyone. It is a pleasure and honor to be here today to join you at your 37th Annual Hawaii Island Honpa Hongwanji Lay Members Association Convention.
Several
months ago when I was invited to speak by Mrs. Faye Honma, your
Programing
Chairperson, I accepted very quickly and almost too
enthusiastically. I could not resist the opportunity to come home to
be with family and friends and of course, to savor my mom's most
delicious "nishime" that she makes whenever I come home to
visit.
A
few days after I accepted, I became nervous and was worried about my
too quick acceptance. I guess reality set in. I wondered what
worthwhile, provocative and entertaining message could I bring to all
of you, people whom I care about and respect. Besides that, what
inspiration could I share with you, knowing that many of you were my
church inspirations many years ago? Added to that, I would have to say
something pretty worthwhile because my morn and dad, my brother and
his family would probably be in the audience. You know, your family
can be your most honest and worst critics and honesty goes a long way
in my family.
Well,
I called Mrs. Honma and asked for help. Like the ever loyal and
dedicated Sunday School teacher I remember, she was again efficient
and most helpful. Mrs. Honma enlisted the assistance of Reverend Eric
Matsumoto. Both Reverend Matsumoto and Mrs. Honma sent me lots of
reading material. Reverend Matsumoto called the Honpa Hongwanji
Bookstore and I was sent more books and documentation to read. Soon it
became a mission for others to help.
It
was like a whole community, some of whom I did not know but who knew
you, had been assembled and called to assist. Because of your help, I
am feeling very good about being here although I did take an 11-hour
flight from Boston last night.
My
message this morning is a very simple one and to relieve many of you,
it is not too long. It is centered on the belief that we are each
shaped by the people. who gave us life. Everything we are and all that
we do can be traced in one way or another to early influences:
parents, family, church, early childhood friends, adult models, one's
home and one's community. In my case, I come home today as a
middle-aged adult, fifty-years old, who is extremely grateful to those
who have shaped my life. And in reflecting your theme for 1998,
"Live the Dharma Ohana - In the Spirit of Rennyo Shonin," it
is evident that you, the laity of this church are still continuing to
influence the lives of those that surround you, young and old, and are
concerned about the future of Jodo Shinshu in Hawaii.
This
past summer I was at Harvard University completing a fellowship for
world school leaders and during my studies had the opportunity to chat
with Dr. Masatoshi Nagatomi, Professor of Buddhist Studies at Harvard,
who has authored and lectured much about our traditions and religion.
In my conversation with him, he shared with me some worry that our
Hongwanji in Hawaii and throughout the world may be faced with decline
in active membership.
I
was caught off-guard in my conversation with Professor Nagatomi
because I had always taken for granted the existence of my home
church. It was where I grew up, where I attended Sunday School, where
families had parties and where I expected my family would bury each
other. There would always be the Kyodan, Dharma School, YBA, Seinen
Kyodan, Kojukai, Fujinkai, active ministers and church friends. It
would always be the "hub" for refuge, for our Nembutsu and
for social gatherings. How could things change? Well, after my
conversation with the sensei," I walked Harvard Square alone that
night and gazed in isolation as I thought of the many changes that
have occurred since I was a child.
Imagine
in the 1950's when I grew up in Paauilo. Things moved a little slower.
I met my "best" and closest friends, the Paauilo girls, at
Sunday School every Sunday morning'. I did not appreciate my younger
brother, Scott, accompanying me to church so often I would take my
ojuzu," my $.25 offertory, and sneak out of the house so he
wouldn't see. Of course, Scott was always a fast runner and he was
always brighter than me so I could never be too much in front of him.
Sunday School was preceded with "ono" malasadas from
Nakashima Fountain. Scott and I got our malasadas and I don't think I
ever paid for them, thinking that "charging" malasadas meant
that my Mommy and Daddy would pay for it sometime later. The
Nakashimas after all were part of our community and they were always
welcoming.
At
Sunday Service, we sat in rows, young and old. We learned to give our
quarters at offertory time, and although quarters were "what we
lived for," we learned that giving money to the church should be
a habit. Sometimes, my mom reminded Scott and me that we should give a
little more and spend less on ourselves.
In
Sunday School, we learned very little about Rennyo Shonin. I suppose
our Sunday School curriculum was based on knowing more about -Shinran
Shonin, the founder of the Jodo Shinshu sect, our Amida Buddha and the
Nembutsu. But Sunday School for me was a time to meet my best friends
at church. There was no Sunday football on television to distract us
and the Sunday morning church ritual was built in as a family habit.
We were expected to go to church "ojuzu', and "quarter"
in hand.
Ah.
but I do remember a short lesson about Rennyo Shonin from Mr. Hisao
Miyasaki, our Sunday School teacher. Mr. Miyasaki told us that Rennyo;
the eighth head priest of Jodo Shinshu had five (5) wives, he outlived
four (4) of them and had 27 children, 13 sons and 14 daughters (that I
remembered and I was pretty astonished). I did not focus on Rennyo
Shonin 's missionary and charismatic work that the lesson underscored.
In fact, we Paauilo girls, joked among ourselves after our Sunday
School discussion of Rennyo. I vividly remember this. We crafted a
rather harmless but secret phrase, "Rennyo Shonin, the major
father of Jodo Shinshu." He was a "major" father
because he gave life to so many children. We did giggle a lot after
Sunday School that day. Little did I realize that I would be called to
task to talk about him 38 years later. Perhaps some of you would say
that today is my "bachi" for being so cavalier as a
youngster and for not being a serious Dharma student in my growing
years.
But
my preoccupation and dilemma this summer in preparation for today's
address, has validated the importance of study of Rennyo Shonin. I am
committed to reenergizing the work of our church because it has been a
shaping force for us. This force must continue to shape the lives of
many that will follow us. The story of Rennyo's leadership must be
studied and again authenticated by the laity and clergy here in
Hawaii. Rennyo's missionary spirit can positively affect the growth
and sustenance of our Jodo Shinshu faith that considers Shinran its
founder. Rennyo's genius as organizer, communicator and even restorer
of our tradition is not mere folklore nor tall tale. He is remembered
for his tireless efforts in restoring a church in decline. His work
reaffirms that ordinary men and women, like us, can belong to a most
powerful religious body. Research and history prove that he was most
instrumental in reviving and renergizing our faith when it was in
decline in Japan.
Your
theme this year commemorates the five-hundredth memorial of Rennyo and
explicitly articulates your mission of providing venues for promoting
our religion here in Hawaii. The term OHANA appropriately suggests
that we are a Hawaii community, a family of Shin Buddhists, most
willing and passionate to share our religious life and traditions with
those that surround us.
A
look at religions of today suggests that many, many people in our
world are moving away from organized faith. Busy lives, television,
Sunday sports, the media and a multitude of excuses are given to
priests, pastors and clergy as excuses for non-attendance and
non-participation at church. Adult church membership is at a decline
but the population of the world grows. Our seasoned Jodo Shinshu
leaders are aging and will there be a community of passionate church
leaders who will carry on what we believe to be the best tradition,
culture and faith assurances?
And
for us WHO are Shin Buddhists, we ask, "Who else can we can
welcome to our temples? Who else will share our Nembutsu? Many many residents of Hawaii have no church. They are the diverse and the multi-racial residents who inhabit our islands. They may be newly settled Caucasian mainlanders or new Far East emigrants. They may be neighbors in our towns and villages who understand the concept of community and who are looking for a special community of people of faith. We could share Jodo Shinshu with the Hawaii baby boomers, aged 45-60, who have not "belonged" to a church tradition when growing up but who now as maturing adults want to bring faith into their lives amongst people who love, serve and socialize with energy. These middle-aged adults want to be touched by a community that cares, like the community that helped me get information for today's address. It is about belonging that "appeals" to these potential church comers. We could share our Shinshu traditions with the children of our mixed marriages who wear "hapa" faces and have a strong love for the place that they call home. Our island world now grows smaller and mixed marriages are no longer a "taboo." We have married and our children and our grandchildren look different, act differently, and wear a new cosmopolitan identity.
We could
share our Nembutsu with the youngest of toddlers in our communities,
who by way of their ages pose the greatest hope for our economy, our
culture and our traditions. These "babies" today are
watching, modeling and liking what they see, hear and feel.
Educational research has long proven that the values and beliefs of
children are developed in their most formative stages. By promoting
and mentioning important actions, choices and beliefs when children
are at their youngest stages in life, one can assure lifelong
commitments. Do you remember showing your child or grandchild how to
"gassho?" Do you remember how proud they were when they
could do it themselves? We want to have more Jodo Shinshu toddlers. It
is evident that we are a welcoming family church. The noises, laughter
and chatter of young children should fill our temples and worshiping
spaces. We should invite the elderly in Hawaii to our temples and places of worship. These are folks who have known us personally for all of our years and who consider us their respected friends, but who have not entered our church because they believed it was only a "Japanese" church. We need to tear down the old identity walls and welcome all regardless of skin color.
I
am going to talk a little bit about perspective. I want each of you to
follow me in this short exercise. Point your finger to the ceiling and
in a clockwise motion, make circles in the air: (The direction of the
clock.) Move your circles downward until they are chest high. Now look
at the circles that you continue to make. Are they still moving in
clockwise directions? Have time and your actions changed your
perception? Yes, with time and actions, change occurs. And our
perspectives change. The perspective of being "a Japanese
church" is real but there is added value to the Hongwanji when
over time and in the same motions a differing perspective is seen and
appreciated.
We should
encourage and invite teenagers and young adults in our towns and
villages to come and worship amongst us. These are individuals who
have become techno-wizards and who spend great chunks of their day in
front of a computer screen and who e-mail friends in all corners of
this globe. These folks are called the Net Generation because the
media is the net that holds them together as a community. Do our
Kyodans have web pages that hold the wealth of information about who
we are and what we profess? Do we have groups of Jodo Shinshu
followers who e-mail each other regularly and who have chat rooms to
talk about our issues, our concerns and our hopes?
Grab onto
the worldwide web and promote via new wave Nembutsu technologies
because the media is here and shapes our culture today.
There may
be other individuals who because of other responsibilities and time
constraints have left the active Hongwanji membership rolls. We can
bring them back and rekindle the spirit of their beliefs and hone
their allegiance to the Nembutsu.
But all
this will take work and earnest cultivation by each of us. And how do
we go about the work? Let us look at Rennyo's life as a story to be
repeated.
We
remember that Rennyo Shonin lived in fifteenth-century Japan and
during his lifetime, Japan was developing economically a new social
structure. It was a period of internal warfare and the people were
hardened at heart. Amid this social turmoil, Rennyo transmitted in an
easily comprehensible manner, the path of being saved through the
Nembutsu that Shinran Shonin originally had taught. Through Rennyo's
energetic propagation all his life, the teaching of Jodo Shinshu
spread throughout the country and the foundation for the Hongwanji was
laid.
We
together as the laity of this church can and will propagate as Rennyo
did. For it is meetings like the one we are experiencing today, that
rekindles and rekindles our commitment to our faith community. We have
the passion, in many ways like Rennyo, to see the strong continuance
of our tradition and faith. It is our strong belief in the Amida that
energizes each of us and despite our shortcomings, we are a people of
faith. So what can we do?
Start by
"talking story" to others that surround you, young and old.
Rediscover why you are active and strong members of the Jodo Shinshu
faith. Do not be embarrassed to share your stories and your commitment
first to your children, your grandchildren and your closest friends,
Japanese or not. For in the telling of your personal stories, you will
record for others why you belong and why you choose the path to
Enlightenment. Good seeds come from good cultures. You are the seeds
of Jodo Shinshu in Hawaii that were planted many years ago. Go forth
and sprout new plants of wisdom that will result in new followers of
our time by your honest rediscovery.
Talk about
the benefits of being a member of the Hongwanji. Rennyo, more than
anyone else during his time, presented a comprehensive picture of how
people of his day thought, behaved and interacted with other people
when they recited the Nembutsu. This paradigm of faith was one of
Rennyo's greatest contributions to Shin Buddhism. Rennyo believed and
convinced his followers that one should teach simply that
unenlightened beings can become Buddhas and people should be urged to
rely on Amida to save them. This uncomplicated formula - to rely on
Amida captures the essence of our faith: a state of total reliance on
the Buddha from whom saving power flows, leading to Enlightenment in
the next life. Such an experience is not contingent on the
sophistication of one's knowledge nor on one's mastery of sacred
texts. It arises out of a realization of Amida's power as the sole
basis for birth in the Pure Land. Simply stated, Enlightenment is
attainable for all and what a simple and easily understood benefit
this holds.
Continue
your excellent practices and welcoming behaviors. In the island
traditions of hospitality, welcome others to church, church-related
events, and community outings. A very good example of what you do well
touched my heart several weeks ago. While my husband was here in
Hawaii in July, he participated in a golf tournament sponsored by the
Kamuela Hongwanji. He was not eager to participate and needed some
coaxing because he is not a very good golfer. There was added anxiety
in knowing that he was probably the only "gaijin" to play in
the tournament. But to his delight, he was not isolated nor did he
feel uncomfortable. Instead, the genuine fellowship of all who
surrounded him made him feel safe, welcomed and accepted. You
expressed to him what Rennyo lived each day. Rennyo cherished the
fellowship of others. He would sit in the company of those that came
to visit and would serve them hot sake in cold weather or cold sake in
hot weather as a gesture of hospitality and appreciation. You in
Hawaii are probably the most cordial and hospitable of all people on
this earth. Hospitality is the signature of our OHANA and your
hospitality is only bettered by your generosity. My husband Don was
stunned when he received a wall clock (because as he reported, he
didn't play very well but everybody yes, everybody at
the church golf tournament received a prize). That clock stands as a
time reminder that friendship is coveted and important in our island
tradition and in our Jodo Shinshu faith. There is no doubt in my mind
that when he chooses a church, it will be the Hongwanji. You have
reached out like Rennyo and made a friend for life.
Display
your allegiance to the Amida Buddha and express the Nembutsu
continuously. Rennyo was constantly mindful of the link between faith
in this life and salvation in the next. It would be wrong, however, to
think that faith's fulfillment would occur solely beyond death. On the
contrary, Rennyo made it clear that salvation could be found both in
the future and the present. Specifically, in the next life the
faithful would realize Nirvana or complete enlightenment, but in this
one we experience a transformed outlook and way of living, known as
the state of true assurance.
This is
such a practical and sensible approach. Ideally, the Nembutsu arises
in our mouths and from our hearts of faith without guile or design. In
fact, Rennyo considered Namu Amida Butsu to be the stuff of which all
things were made (e.g. the collar on one's shirt or the chair on which
one sits). It is not surprising then, that Shin Buddhists of Rennyo's
day, among the various types of sacred objects available to them, had
a distinct preference for hanging scrolls inscribed with the Nembutsu
rather than for statues or paintings of the Buddha. We, Hawaii
Buddhists, can also display visible centerpieces of the Nembutsu in
our homes. Our regular and daily articulation of the Namu Amida Butsu
should be accompanied by visual images of the Nembutsu. Take some risks. Be bold in your efforts to make church more meaningful. Perhaps it may mean providing some strange new answers or ideas to encourage others to join you in worship and in the recitation of the Nembutsu. Rennyo also believed that with each Nembutsu entoned, people manifested not only their reliance on Amida but also their gratitude and indebtedness. Rennyo took many risks. For example, his treatment of women of his day was extraordinary. He believed women had as much equal access to becoming a Buddha as their male counterparts. That, in effect, was pretty revolutionary for his time. The greatest challenge facing members of our Hawaii Hongwanji, the lay and the clergy, seems to me, as we approach the five-hundredth anniversary of Rennyo's death in 1999 and as we enter the twenty-first century is: the ability to speak honestly from our experiences and to use our spheres of influence to enrich the lives of those that surround us. As I conclude today's talk, I would like to leave you with a thought that I found that night as I walked Harvard Square. It was displayed on a t-shirt in a store window. I could not resist purchasing it as a reminder to me of what is occurring in our lives today. On the front of the t-shirt is a banned sign of TTWWADI, which stands for no more "That's the way we 've always done it." We no longer can use that as an excuse to survive and thrive. We need to take risks because CHANGE IS HERE AND CHANGE IS GOOD.
The back
of the shirt has a quote from the late President John F. Kennedy who
in 1963 said, "Change is good. Change is the law of life. And
those who look only to the past or the present are certain to miss the
future."
Let
us not miss the future here in Hawaii. Let us push forward with our
hearts and know that: Our Hongwanji will continue to thrive and
flourish. The spirit of Rennyo Shonin shall provide energy and
testimony for Hawaii Buddhists as we look and work toward a continuing
bright future in the 21st century.
Namu
Amida Butsu.
The following is a portion of her background that appeared in the convention booklet. Her achievements are too numerous to list here.
Daughter
of Thomas & Bernice Nakahara of Paauilo, born and raised in
Paauilo, graduated from Honokaa High School and Paauilo Hongwanji
Dharma School. She has one brother: Scott Nakahara, DDS; spouse:
Donald Oleson, Development Engineer with Boeing International and a
son: Robert Cobb, Jr., a pre-med student at University of California
at San Diego. Doreen
Oleson received her Bachelor of Arts degree in Speech Communications Secondary
Education from Ripon College in 1970; Teacher Credential Program in Elementary
Education from the University of Hawaii at Hilo in 1971; Master of Science in
Computer Sciences from Pepperdine University in 1986; and Doctor of Education in
Institutional Management from Pepperdine University in 1991. Her professional
experiences include: Elementary Teacher and Adult GED Education Teacher for the
Hawaii State Dept. Of Education from 1970-1977; a Realtor with Hugh Nenefee
Realtors of Honolulu from 1977-1981; Managing partner of Myoken Jewels of
Honolulu from 1977-1981; Director of Educational Centers, Doctoral Program
Coordinator and Vice-President for Special Programs at Pepperdine University
from 1981-1990 and currently is the Head of School at St.Mark's School in
Altadena, California since 1990. She is also currently serving as the
Educational Field Consultant for the Educational Field Studies, Inc. in
Chantilly, Va. from 1991;Training Consultant for World of Difference
Anti-Defamation League in Los Angeles, Ca. from1995; and President of Doreen
Oleson & Associates Educational Consultants from 1996.
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